Do people actually get over their first love?

I mean, I know you’ll never forget about them. But like, what happens after a couple of years? Or hell, a ton of years? Haha. Do you just go on with your life pretending like he/she never existed? Or do you go on and act as if you don’t love him/her anymore even though you still very much do? Orr you remain pretty good friends with them and watch him/her live their lives wishing it was with you?

I wonder how your first love feels..do they think about the same things? Wish the same things? Why is love so complicated? Or maybe it’s actually really simple and it’s the people that make it almost impossible?

So many questions, but no answers.